Dr. Jessica Pae, Psy.D
Stress can have such a bad connotation in the world we inhabit. Often stress can cause us to feel down and more anxious due looming deadlines, financial pressures, relationship struggles, and/or health concerns. Stress can impact us physically, mentally, and emotionally. However, stress isn’t necessarily negative. Stress helps us to stay motivated, accomplish tasks, meet challenges, and do what we need to. It is important to understand stress in order to learn effective ways to manage it which ultimately allows us to use stress as a catalyst for growth rather than seeing it as a hindrance.
What is Stress?
Stress is the body's response to external or internal pressures, triggering a cascade of physiological and psychological reactions. When faced with a stressor, the body releases hormones like cortisol and adrenaline, preparing us for a fight-or-flight response. While this response can be life-saving in threatening situations, prolonged exposure to stress without adequate coping mechanisms can lead to detrimental effects on our health and well-being.
What Causes Stress? Identifying the Culprits:
Take a moment to understand what triggers your stress. Think through various different areas of your life and see what may be causing you stress. Some categories include:
Work: Tight deadlines, heavy workloads, conflicts with colleagues
Personal: Relationship issues, financial worries, caregiving responsibilities
Health: Chronic illnesses, pain, sleep disturbances
Environmental: Noise, pollution, overcrowding
Social: Social isolation, peer pressure, discrimination
By pinpointing the sources of stress, we gain insight into how to address them effectively.
How to Manage Stress: Coping Strategies
While we may not have control over all the stressors in our lives, we can control how we respond to them. Here are some strategies to help cope with stress:
Physical Activity: Regular exercise not only improves physical health but also boosts mood and reduces stress levels by releasing endorphins, the body's natural mood elevators. Take a walk and see how you feel.
Healthy Lifestyle Choices: Eating a balanced diet, sleep hygiene, and avoiding excessive alcohol and caffeine consumption can bolster our resilience to stress.
Social Support: Connecting with friends, family, or support groups can provide emotional validation, practical assistance, and a sense of belonging, buffering the negative effects of stress.
Mindfulness and Meditation: Take time to slow down your mind and body by being present in the moment.
Time Management: Breaking tasks into manageable chunks, setting priorities, and practicing time management techniques can prevent feeling overwhelmed and increase productivity.
Seeking Professional Help: When stress becomes overwhelming or chronic, see professional support with a therapist/counselor. Therapy can provide valuable insight to help you cope and provide support.
In a world where stress is unavoidable, it’s essential to remember that we have the power to shape our responses and reclaim control over our lives. If you are interested in
seeking therapy with someone in the greater Denver Metro Area.